Haha! I know what you mean. I remember when I was first called difficult by a man I got a bit upset... Then I thought about it, then thought some more and realized what was behind it and understood that I would never want to change that about me ;-)
I love people who know what they want, but there are different ways this gets expressed by different people. Specifically, some people put their feet down and explain nicely why they feel a certain way. Others do it in a mean or defensive way and it does feel difficult!
Hmm, interesting to hear your opinion because you're a man :) I know what you mean though, and it's, sadly, a fact that a lot of men prefer their women weak and quite lol
Exactomundo! It's also a sign of a weak man, and that's why I'm thankful for being "difficult" - I definitely don't need me a weak scared little man with an inflated ego! lol
I appreciate you taking the time to connect and share your thoughts, so thank you for your comment! And while you're at it... Why not tell me what you're thankful for today? ;-)
Amen to that!
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Haha - I am very difficult. Proud to be a pain in the a*$! :) I'm thankful too. Much better than being a pushover!
ReplyDeleteHaha! I know what you mean. I remember when I was first called difficult by a man I got a bit upset... Then I thought about it, then thought some more and realized what was behind it and understood that I would never want to change that about me ;-)
ReplyDeleteI love people who know what they want, but there are different ways this gets expressed by different people. Specifically, some people put their feet down and explain nicely why they feel a certain way. Others do it in a mean or defensive way and it does feel difficult!
ReplyDeleteHmm, interesting to hear your opinion because you're a man :) I know what you mean though, and it's, sadly, a fact that a lot of men prefer their women weak and quite lol
ReplyDeleteIf a man wants his woman weak, it's probably a sign of an inflated ego. Find yourself a fellow who respects your confidence—your self assuredness :)
ReplyDeleteExactomundo! It's also a sign of a weak man, and that's why I'm thankful for being "difficult" - I definitely don't need me a weak scared little man with an inflated ego! lol
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