Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Unfinished Business

By now you probably know that I always look for a meaning in everything, believe that everything happens for a reason, believe in destiny, signs and coinsidences and all that, and could care less what so many people think about it - it just works for me, I'm not forcing it on anyone. So, for a while now, there have been quite some weird and inexplicable things happening in my life, that kept preventing me from doing certain things I wanted to pursue. And I kept wondering why and I just couldn't find the answer. Until just a few days ago something not so pleasant happened. At first I got frustrated, but being the way I am, I really tried digging deeper into it. How thankful I am now - that thing that happened, no matter how unpleasant, is all I needed to be able to figure out all the recent why's. Once you know what the problem is you can get down to solving it. It was all about some of the unfinished bussiness, which I will now take good care of. It's no longer a problem, I know what I need to do and I'm going to make sure I learn from my mistakes.

13 comments:

  1. A valuable lesson, mistakes do happen to teach us, bad stuff happens to teach us too, and with each unpleasant event we are a little wiser xx

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  2. I love how you show how you work through your issues. Problems, big or small, are different for each individual person, and you show us that it's normal to feel frustrated by the things that happen to us that we can't control, but it's also possible to get through it. =)

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  3. You are such a fabulously insightful lady!

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  4. I admire you. I really do. Right now going through some (pretty normal but stressful) things myself too and ahh.. it's good to read posts which give this kind of positive thinking and inspire "going on". I just sometimes tend to not solve the problem, once I've discovered it. But I'll keep on reading you and I hope I'll get more influenced by you and your positiveness on regards problems.
    Thank You, Julia:)

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  5. Wonderful post. And we totally have to stop giving a second thought to what others think about our belief in meaning. Amen that sista! Glad it's all unfolding for you. Enjoy your week.

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  6. this blog is so inspirational!
    this was just the kick in the butt I needed too. :)

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  7. I really admire your attitude... you always analyze and think. And I love that. xoxo

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  8. Love this post! Your blog is great!
    xoxo,
    http://www.onceuponafad.blogspot.com

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  9. I love reading your insights. Youre completely and utterly fabulous Miss Julia!

    stay classy,
    Madeleine

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  10. Very insightful and so true- you really can't finish a problem until you really know what you're dealing with. Wise words. I admire the trepidation you seem to have with the big issues.

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  11. ..I also believe that the things happen for some reason and that there is big BOOK somewhere where everything is already written ..and I REALLY believe in signs , and after you can understand a lot more if you read them ..
    I'm glad to hear you had sorted out your situation , it's nice feeling to have a clear head and no weight on shoulders ..

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  12. finding the reason maybe takes time but it leads everyone to find the solution....

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  13. I was sad to read this... but at the same time inspired by your persistence to get through it. If you ever need someone to write to, you know how to reach me. I am your friend, although distant. Stay positive :^)

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I appreciate you taking the time to connect and share your thoughts, so thank you for your comment! And while you're at it... Why not tell me what you're thankful for today? ;-)