There are people who are meant to come into your life, teach you a lesson and then just walk out of your life as if they never even existed... Or at least that's how I experienced it a few times. I was thinking about it today and realized, that if there are people out there who are meant to play this role in my life, then I am also a person who is meant to play this same role in someone else's life as well. Maybe this explains why sometimes we connect with someone and even though such a connection seems to be such a magical thing it somehow goes somewhat wrong and you're left feeling like you better just 'vanish'. Maybe it really means that you've played your role - you came and provided a lesson (even if unknowingly) - and now you're meant to walk away, leaving the other half of such connection with their thoughts and their lesson. Maybe. This is just a thought, but I still feel thankful for playing a part in someone's life, because frankly, we all do.
i know what you mean exactly...yet it makes me sad sometimes to think that the lesson that i gave was so hard for someone else...
ReplyDeleteAhh this is a good one - really made me think, who's life might have I affected, despite only briefly knowing them...
ReplyDeleteI always hate to see them go, but you're absolutely right. I'm positive I've been that person too! Hopefully a good influence/memory...
ReplyDeleteYour so right on this one
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That's a great perspective to have on people who come and go, and I think you're right on about it. It's especially nice when that feeling of the conclusion is mutually felt by both parties so no one gets the feeling of being dissed. If only it was always that way!
ReplyDeleteSo dead on and I never even thought of that. I always think of who plays a role for me but never really vice versa. That's very interesting to think of it in reverse! And yes, the Situation is too dumb to even tell you about... if you want you can online search him and why he's called that but I kind of hope you don't because you will think even less of me. :)
ReplyDeleteIMHO When giving and getting anything (love, feelings, advice..) never keep the count, try to live with an open mind and to be positive (as you are..)
ReplyDelete..that is so true Julia ..sometimes I think why that thing happened! and that! and why I did Some things! but it's all like a chain reaction , we played our roles , get some lessons for our future life , get experience ..even if there is some regrets ..it's life and we all have those feelings and lessons ..like a round really ..
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I totally believe in this too. Which makes letting friendships dissolve and goodbyes feel better :) xo
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